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From “9-to-5” to a “Coat of Many Colors,” Dolly Parton — the Queen of Country — has spent decades teaching us how to grow old with grace. Through her lyrics and life story, Parton has distilled big ideas like purpose, generosity, and resilience into lines you can’t help but hum all day.
Retirement is its own kind of reinvention, and Parton knows that better than anyone. Whether she’s singing about the grind or the value of family, her wisdom is a perfect soundtrack for a chapter that isn’t always smooth sailing. To get inspired for your own golden years, here are five Dolly Parton quotes every retiree should live by.
Sing your way through life with these Dolly Parton quotes.
1. “Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.”
X ( then Twitter) post, August 9, 2010
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Many retirees keep working because they are worried they will outlive their money. Moreover, many refuse to spend what they have out of that same fear.
Whether they work too much or are so frugal that it stops them from living, the result is the same. It’s what Parton warns us about. Focusing too much on the money can come at the cost of enjoying what really matters: friends, family, and loved ones.
Without a doubt, it’s challenging to shift from decades of saving to a mindset of spending. However, it is okay to spend, especially if that spending lines up with your values.
Whether it’s time with family, a hobby, travel, or giving back, your money should serve your life, not the other way around. Keep the basics covered, but don’t let fear turn into paralysis. Instead, come up with a retirement drawdown strategy and start living.
2. “Find out who you are and do it on purpose.”
Instagram, October 15, 2020
We all need purpose in life. For many of us, our career is it. In retirement, we have to find a new purpose. What is going to get you out of bed every morning and keep you satisfied? When you find it, you can’t feel bad about pursuing it.
Parton wants retirees to find what they love, and to then do it with vigor. No apologies, even if it means spending some of your retirement savings on it. Find that joy, make sure you can afford it, and then take Dolly’s advice and “do it on purpose.”
Not sure how much money you’ll need in retirement to afford your purpose, JPMorgan crunched the numbers to give us some guidelines. You can read how you stack up here.
3. “In the same boat with a lot of your friends. Waitin’ for the day your ship’ll come in. And the tide’s gonna turn an’ it’s all gonna roll your way.”
9 to 5, November 17, 1980
Retirement can be scary. There are a lot of unknowns: Will I have enough cash to last? When should I begin collecting Social Security? What if I get sick — how will I pay for it?
While those worries can keep you tossing and turning, Parton reminds us with these lyrics that you are not alone. Millions of Americans retire each year, and while the run-up to retirement can be nerve-wracking, if you are prepared, “the tide’s gonna turn an’ it’s all gonna roll your way.”
To put yourself in a good position for success, make sure you retire with your eyes wide open. Know how much money you need, where it’s coming from, when you’ll begin taking Social Security, and how you’ll cover out-of-pocket health care costs.
If you aren’t sure, delay retiring until you have a solid strategy in place. Retirement do-overs are possible, but they aren’t common. It’s better to retire with a clear roadmap and a calm mind.
4. “I make a point to appreciate all the little things in my life. I go out and smell the air after a good, hard rain.”
Dream More: Celebrate the Dreamer in You, November 27, 2012
Through this quote, Parton reminds us that the good life isn’t always about chasing material things. Sometimes, it is the little things that bring us the most pleasure. That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a few expensive things too; the key is to find a middle ground for how you live your life and spend your money in retirement.
The more you build your life around smaller, repeatable pleasures, whether it’s long walks in the morning or curling up on the couch with a good book, the more satisfied you will feel.
This mindset makes you less likely to make impulse buys to fill a void left by the loss of your job. To overcome that pull, create a list of little things you can do that cost nothing. When you get the urge to spend, revisit the list first.
5. “Storms make trees take deeper roots.”
X (then Twitter), March 22, 2013
During the thick of your career, it is easy to feel stressed by decades of layoffs, company overhauls, difficult bosses, and the constant juggle of work and life. While those specific pressures fade in retirement, new storms can emerge. From sequence of returns risk to rising housing and health care costs, retirees face a gauntlet of financial hurdles — not to mention the impact of inflation and taxes.
But that’s okay, because your years of planning and saving have put you in a strong position to weather those risks. You built the roots to handle these shifts.
If you are ever unsure, there are financial advisers, online planning tools, and resources to help you stay grounded. The key takeaway from Parton’s words is that while there will always be stressors in life, your resilience and what you make of them is what ultimately matters.
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Goodbye 9 to 5, hello, your next chapter.
Remember, retirement is about more than healthy retirement savings. As Dolly’s wisdom shows us, it’s trading the hustle and bustle for joy from a quiet day in the sun.
Whether you are navigating the storms of market volatility or finding the courage to spend on a retirement dream, remember that you’ve spent decades growing the roots necessary to weather these changes.
Take the advice of the “Backwoods Barbie” herself and keep your basics covered, your eyes wide open, and don’t be afraid to be a little bit “lazy” as you enjoy the “fishing hole” you’ve worked so hard to reach.
Editor’s note: This article is part of an ongoing series featuring the best retirement quotes and wisdom from top financial experts, leaders, and public figures. Other articles feature Warren Buffett, Michael Jordan, Mark Cuban, Jimmy Buffett, Dr. Seuss, Bruce Springsteen, Bob Dylan, Vince Lombardi, and Ronald Reagan.