Oh, Italy. I miss you! It’s been almost three years since our family vacation there. Like many people, I was awed by the beauty and simple details that make life there so remarkable: the culture, food, music and style. I would love to return soon, but with airfare so expensive and inflation in Italy spiking, it’s just not happening. I may even have to wait a few years until I’m retired to go back for the long soak in Italian culture I crave.
Honestly, I’d like to be fluent in Italian for my next trip, dressed as stylishly as any Milanese woman as I sample tiramisu in a piazza. While that may be a high bar, I have found very affordable — even free — ways to enjoy Italian food and culture, as well as tricks for practicing the language, all without leaving home. These tips will also make my next venture there more fun.
Whether you’ve already been to Italy or are just dreaming about it, here are my tricks for feeling like you’re living la bella vita at home.
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Start the day with cappuccino
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Yes, you could go out and spend a fortune on a fancy espresso machine, with all of its breakable parts and hulking mass on your counter. Or, you could brew good, strong espresso using your current method and top it with foamy milk. I’ve had the Aerolatte Handheld Milk Frother ($29.95 at Williams Sonoma) for years. It’s simple, battery-operated and works like a charm.
Treat yourself to some real Italian ingredients
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Most European goods have been subject to a 10% or 15% tariff during President Donald Trump’s second term, which has, in turn, increased prices for some Italian imports. Still, you can find good shelf-stable products online and likely many at your local grocery store. If you have access to a farmer’s market, buying fresh produce in season is the best first step to cooking Italian.
The basis for most Italian cooking is cold-pressed, extra-virgin olive oil (often called EVOO). You may have heard about rampant olive oil fraud a few years ago, when manufacturers blended old oil with fresh, or lied about its origin. Some of these issues have improved, but you can avoid this trap by buying oil certified in North America or the EU under PDO/PGI designations. In general, look for oil sold in a dark glass bottle, with a harvest date no more than two years old and a single country of origin.
Wirecutter’s taste test of different olive oils can help you learn how to sample oil (spoiler alert: The test found Whole Foods 365 California Small Batch olive oil to be the tastiest). Costco also has a good selection of affordable Italian EVOOs.
If you’re serious about olive oil, try getting to know the different kinds of olives, just as you would pay attention to the variety of grapes that make up fine wine.
For a deep dive into the culinary traditions of different regions, I highly recommend the TV series, Tucci in Italy. The veteran actor and gourmand devotes each episode to a different ingredient, dish or food tradition.
For a deep dive into Italian wines and food zones, you can plan to visit farms via agriturismo on your next trip.
Don’t forget the gelato!
A range of gelato flavors in a Centro Storico, Roman gelataria.
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Adherents to the Mediterranean Diet will be delighted to know that gelato can be an occasional treat. The true Italian version is healthier than ice cream, with less fat and fewer calories, and is often made with local fruit and nuts for flavor. Just don’t top it with candy bars.
I’m lucky enough to live in a town with multiple gelato shops. If your area is sadly without them, you could try all-natural versions from the grocery store. A good option is Gelato Boy, with its emphasis on fresh ingredients and wide availability.
Listen to some Italian opera
Many Italian cities offer short Italian opera concerts in historic churches.
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I prefer little bites of opera as opposed to an almost four-hour-long production of The Marriage of Figaro. Italy understands this sentiment and has organized frequent hour-long “greatest hits” performances in historic churches and other venues throughout the country. Even my uninitiated husband and kids loved these performances, and I highly recommend them for your next trip.
Your kitchen may not be a 16th-century church, but you can still enjoy listening to opera while cooking a fabulous Italian dinner. Put on an apron, uncork some wine and experiment with Spotify or YouTube playlists for Italian opera classics, and you’ll enjoy some of the greats: Luciano Pavarotti, Maria Callas, Andrea Bocelli, Jessye Norman and more.
Brush up on your Italian — or start learning from scratch
Sophia Loren and Marcello Mastroianni in the film “Too Bad She’s Bad.”
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There are so many fun ways to start learning or improving your Italian. As someone who taught college-level Spanish, I have a leg up in terms of vocabulary and comprehension, but Italian is different enough that I knew I needed to start as a complete newbie.
If learning a foreign language just isn’t your thing, some generations of Apple AirPods offer a translation feature. That means you can ask your iPhone to “listen” to an Italian speaker and hear spontaneous translation in English.
Apps
For beginners, there are gamified apps that ask you to speak, type and listen in a foreign language. I can attest to how addictive Duolingo can be; I have a 1,200+ day “streak,” meaning I have played the app pretty faithfully every day for the past three years. Duolingo offers a free Italian course and more elaborate paid courses, called Super (about $13/month) and Max (about $30/month). I have tried both and recommend the Super level. The AI functions in Max are clunky and not worth the price, in my opinion. The free version is a great way to sample the app, but frustrating if you intend to stick with it.
Podcasts
I also think that listening to podcasts while you’re taking a walk, cooking or doing chores is a fabulous way to get a language in your head. Postcards from Italy is a charming conversational podcast that breaks down vocabulary, phrases and Italian traditions. It is a free podcast, but you can elect to pay for additional access.
TV and Film
Who says learning a language has to be dry? Check out Italian shows on Netflix, like the dramedy “My Family,” which is likened to “This Is Us.” Set the language to Italian and add English subtitles if needed. Or on Amazon Prime, watch “My Brilliant Friend.” Most streaming services will carry classic Italian films such as La Dolce Vita. And if you need a reason to rewatch Life is Beautiful, remember the delight of Roberto Benigni accepting the Best Foreign Language Film award from Sophia Loren at the 1999 Oscars. Other titles to explore: Il Postino, Cinema Paradiso (in Italian and Sicilian) and of course, almost anything by Fellini.
Embrace Italian style
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You don’t have to go to Milan Fashion Week to look fabulous. One of the best ways to embrace the style is to wear vintage scarves and take time to learn how to tie them. In general, Italian style for both men and women centers on classic neutrals, smart layering and accessories galore.
Oh, the tiramisu … and Airbnb Experiences
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If you have Italian relatives who will open their home and give you a sense of how regular folks live, consider yourself lucky. The rest of us have to make do with friends of friends or even Airbnb. Yes, we all have a bit of a love-hate relationship with vacation home rental companies like Vrbo and Airbnb; they drive up real estate prices for locals, but they also provide (often) more affordable accommodations for families.
One way to support the local economy and get a more authentic meal is to book an Airbnb Experience. Some friends of ours had raved about the funky tours or excellent meals they had abroad, so we decided to give it a try. We booked a lunch with a charming Italian couple in Rome. Over a five-course meal in their apartment, we learned that they enjoyed playing music — as do we. Before we knew it, they brought out two guitars, a mandolin, and a violin, and we had a lovely time eating tiramisu and playing music together. Priceless.
While it’s far better to be in Italy for this kind of experience, Airbnb does offer pasta-making or similar experiences in the U.S. In some cases, a chef will come to your home to prepare an Italian meal.
If you can’t hire a “nonna” (Italian grandmother) to come cook for you, try venturing to a “Little Italy” if there’s one near you. While many are on the East Coast, you’ll still find great Italian (or Italian-American) food in places like Cleveland, St. Louis, Pittsburgh, San Francisco, and of course, Chicago.